Well man in the end of the day you can make happy only one girl at the time better just go with the flow cause thinking will just hold you back and in the end of the day everyone gona be single. If you find a interesting girl then its natural to get to know her better. If a girl is attractive then its insulting not letting her know how pretty she is cause they put a lot of work in their looks. Also some girls are most beautifule from inside just like a fridge. Such girls can be only discovered by interacting with them and spending some more time together. The right think to do is take what you need from diferent kind of girls and just by doing that they will feel needed, apreciated and real women.
And you right no one cares what you do. Theres a lot of opinions but in the end of the day none of them matters.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will