Just as I thought.
You have to realize that she's volunteering for what she's being given. SHE IS issued and you can't fix her. You blame him when it's her that accepts what he is and what he dishes out to her. Forget him and more importantly forget her because she's damaged goods. You or no martyr can't fix her.
She needs professional help... not a white knight to rescue her momentarily only to go back to him or someone just like him.even after hurting this girl (I know she was REALLY hurt), she eventually returned to him