Signs to look out for

[Specialk]

When a male and female are friends it can become complicated if they talk too much etc. If the girl is in a relationship but still talks to male friend a lot what do you think some of the signs to look out for are that indicate she maybe starting to fall for her male friend, or the signs shes hiding her feelings frim her male friend??

[searock]

I take it you are the "male friend" in this scenario. Look for signs like:

1. She seems embarrassed/uncomfortable when both you and her boyfriend are around... she tries to avoid situations in which the two of you are both present.

2. She regularly goes on one-on-one "dates" with you (movies, dinners, etc).

3. She is in constant or daily communication with you, i.e. she texts, chats, phones or talks to you on a daily basis.

4. She communicates with you even at night (e.g. after 10 PM) on a regular basis.

5. She talks about her feelings with you. This alone means nothing, but when taken with the other 4, it increases the chances of her having feelings for you.

[Specialk]

Yeh communicate late at night, she tells me a lot of personal stuff. As far as her expressing her feelings for me, she doesnt, she kind of shys away from that, if i ask her about my looks etc,she will change the subject and feels uncomfortable, a lot of the time she can be quite cold with me which is odd being friends. She has a boyfriend

[pcmaster]

When she complains about her boyfriend. Makes him look bad in your eyes. Acting like a victim so you can feel pitty for her and make her happy(its not your job to make her happy but her BF so be carefull dont fall for it).

When she talks about herself in sexual way and apreciates your manly body with hints, touches and looks(when she looks at muscles or croch). When she gave up time with her BF in order to be with you.
When shes chilled out with her BF but excited with you. When shes real carefull listening what you are saying. Shes serious about your attention.

[pcmaster]

Yeh communicate late at night, she tells me a lot of personal stuff. As far as her expressing her feelings for me, she doesnt, she kind of shys away from that, if i ask her about my looks etc,she will change the subject and feels uncomfortable, a lot of the time she can be quite cold with me which is odd being friends. She has a boyfriend

You are nothing to her.

[searock]

Yeh communicate late at night, she tells me a lot of personal stuff. As far as her expressing her feelings for me, she doesnt, she kind of shys away from that, if i ask her about my looks etc,she will change the subject and feels uncomfortable, a lot of the time she can be quite cold with me which is odd being friends. She has a boyfriend

Based on this^^^, it seems like she has no romantic feelings for you.

What about the other things I listed? Does she try to avoid situations in which both you and her boyfriend are present? Do you two keep in constant communication (e.g. via text)? Do you go on one-on-one "dates" with her?

[michelle23]

Cut to the chase OP? Are you concerned about her bf? Or do you just want her for yourself?

[Specialk]

If shes with her bf she will avoid me coz he is protective, doesnt know we speak or communicate with each other

[pcmaster]

Get a life man.

[searock]

If shes with her bf she will avoid me coz he is protective, doesnt know we speak or communicate with each other

Sounds like she's afraid of him... if she won't even tell him that she has a male friend, then she's lying to him and their relationship is a scam. However, it is none of your business.

If you are attracted to her, just tell her. Also tell her you'd like to date her as more than just friends. It's up to her to decide what she wants to do.

[michelle23]

Shes an attention whore and untrustworthy. My advice is to tell her to f**k off

[Specialk]

Are you saying she shouldnt be talking to other men behind her bf back if shes in a relationship?

[michelle23]

Yes!!!!!!!!!

[searock]

Are you saying she shouldnt be talking to other men behind her bf back if shes in a relationship?

She shouldn't be lying to her boyfriend at all. However, as I said, it's none of your concern.

If you like her, tell her. Let her know that you are interested in dating. Give her a choice.