Originally Posted by
Ann Schiebert
Dear ladyluck87: You should be confused because you are getting mixed messages. It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. I wounder why you two never discussed marriage counseling? It has helped many but not all.
Also, your ex got caught, didn't he? On a dating website? That would indicate to me that he is not trustworthy. It also sounds like YOU are giving YOUR POWER away by letting him decide if you are on a, "break," (so he can research other women? - "a break" is such a manipulative way to hide the truth) or not. Why don't YOU decide what you want and follow through. Good luck. Ann