Ok so I have been through a rough patch the past 5 years (not related to love) but I have been single for this long. I have not slept with anyone in this time. I went out last night to a club and danced with a guy who I only met for the first time last night. He was nice and I had fun dancing but every time it gets to the end of the night, I recoil against going home with the guy like they seem to expect. I ve always been like that, I'm a little shy, yes probably inexperienced especially with my hiatus from sex from age 23-28, I get embarrassed easily too so the thought of going home with a stranger and getting naked!! seems so awkward to me!
But it seems like everyone does it these days, goes out, meets someone and ends up in their bed a few hours later.
What happened to meet, exchange numbers, go on date, get to know eachother... maybe im stuck in the past as that's what it was like when I used to go out in my early 20s.
Am I just being old fashioned? Or should I loosen up a bit? I don't know, I feel so bad like im leading them on when all I really want is a bit of closeness dancing, maybe a kiss, I guess im more after love..a relationship not just a one night stand.
Does anyone else feel this way? Or am I just looked at as a tease and frigid if I don't want to put out at the end of the night??