Does my ex girlfriend miss me ??

[mrblacksmith]

So if you've read any of my previous posts you know what's been going on.
If not here's a briefing.
My ex ended it.
Said she didnt want to be friends or have me in her life at all.
I took that ran with it and begun applying NC
Today is day 8
and within a couples of days already ive got

This Text
"Hey,i just want to make sure you're doing ok. I know things got ugly between us. And maybe not now, but i hope one day we can be friends again. Ok well hope everything is ok.Ttyl"

This email
"Sent you a text yesterday. I don't know if you got it. But yeah, hope you're doing well. Just checking on you."

And i just realized i got a missed call from her last night at 2:53am

I feel like i've shocked her into facing her own decision.
Or maybe i'm over thinking it. I don't know.
But that's why i came here.

Lay it on me people ! What do you think ?
Should i contact her ? I want to so bad

I do still love her and want her back

[Wakeup]

Keep ignoring her. You dont' want someone who would demote you from friend and lover to "just friend" in your life. You "still love her" because you've not given yourself enough time to get to the stage of indifference to her. She will set you back to square one in your healing process if you engage her in conversation so keep up the no contact. In time, you won't care that she gives you crumbs like "how are you?"

You won't listen to that though because it's not what you want to hear so i'll just tell you to guard your heart if you are silly enough to give her attention.

[basilandthyme]

I don't think she's regretting her decision - instead, I think she's feeling guilty because she knows she hurt you. Keep up with what you're doing.

[JJhon]

Just ignore her

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[smackie9]

If she wanted you back she would have asked to meet up with you so you can "talk". I agree that she is feeling guilty about breaking up with you because she obviously still cares, but it doesn't mean she's interested in proceeding with a romantic relationship again. Keep ignoring her because you are still trying to heal.

[michelle23]

I agree with the others. Ignore her completely. Its over. She just feels bad for hurting you. Get on with your life without her. Good luck

[SmthJay]

she had a reason to break off with you. if something happened *behind closed doors* (something you're not telling us) and it
influenced the breakup then I suggest you re-evaluate things.

find distractions and don't contact her lest she's the last being on earth for now

later when you've progressed on moving on and such and have no intense feelings
and can accept that she's married someone else and everything then you can be friends.

[michelle23]

they should never be friends. just move on, its over