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Thread: My girlfriend keeps calling me FOB. Am I overreacting if I found it offensive?

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    My girlfriend keeps calling me FOB. Am I overreacting if I found it offensive?

    I'm an Asian born in USA but raised somewhere else. However, my girlfriend will insist I'm not American and nothing like American. She insists really hard that I doesn't look anything like people who born here. She'll laugh at my accent, grammatical error, language etc. She dislikes almost everything from outside the State. She gives me the impression that she thought people who born and raised in USA is superior than people from other places. Am I overeacting if I found these offensive?

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    sounds like Mr., "POON" needs to find his "tang" elsewhere. Dump her

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    Goodness, I just replied to your other post and suggested a 'break'. I'm now thinking that you need to dump her disrespectful ass.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by basilandthyme View Post
    you need to dump her disrespectful ass.
    Ditto - dump her racist ass. She sounds like she's really dumb, I'm sure you can do better.

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    Lmfao. Are u Hmong or Lao? Thats the last term I thought I'd hear on this forum. LOL

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    Thanks for your advices!

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    What kind of girlfriend is that? Get rid of her, you deserve better!

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    She's being rather racist; if she doesn't like your race/ethnic background/culture whatever, why is she with you? I would say 'Thanks for lowering your standards so much as to date a FOB like myself, but the time has come for me to part...I hope you find your all-American hero soon'.

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