Could he really be this polite and afraid of confrontation?

[Gp123]

This guy I liked never told me he was dating someone else. I would say things to hint, but he never bothered to tell the truth, so I kept going because his excuses were that he was busy with work ... And I believed it true.

When everything finally came out, he said he did want to 'stay in touch'. We never talk about personal life stuff, but if I ask him questions for help about things for work, our work fields are similar, he always responds. I would think he wouldn't want to hear from me or talk to me at all considering we are no longer really friends. Someday I think he won't respond at all, but he always does.

Why? I am trying to believe he meant what he said, he doesn't mind hearing from me,but is he just belong polite?

[Mr. Turtle]

For starters, you'll have to be more descriptive in what you are actually talking about and what you are trying to figure out.

[michelle23]

if he has been lying to you and some other girl-then he is untrustworthy. You sound naive. Why are you not angry about this?

[Gp123]

At one time I was really angry, primarily at myself until I started to think more clearly. I do think he has trouble with confrontation, and maybe he didn't know how to tell me he was interested in someone else without hurting my feelings. We knew each other for a long time. I guess my question is, is it possible he was trying to find a way not to hurt my feelings? Like I said, if I ask him for help now with something he still does answer. If he was not interested in being friends or something he wouldn't respond right?