I met this girl online and we dated for about 2 months. She has kids so I can only see her every other weekend. We immediately hit it off. In the 2 months, we've only gone out 6 times, but after each time we couldn't wait until the next. We talked for at least an hour everyday on the phone and exchanged over 6000 text messages. We were both falling for each other which was a wonderful feeling. She's always telling me how much she misses me and wishes to see me but she can't because she has her kids. We opened up about everything to each other in our conversations. We both loved everything about each other and hoped to be together forever. It went unbelievably well. After the 3rd date, I was falling in love, but I couldn't tell her that. It was too soon. And I think she was getting there too. She often texts how much she likes me and that she more than likes me. Our conversations got more and more intimate as time went on. After the 4th date she wanted me to go get tested and she would do the same. She wanted us to both be safe. She couldn't wait for 6th date to come and we even talked about it. On the 6th date, I surprised her with a Tiffany bracelet. I wanted to give it to her because I wanted her to know how much she meant to me. She was happy with it but said I shouldn't spend money on her. Later that night we got intimate and I told her I loved her. She said "so do I". First sign we weren't at the same level. Then the very next day she calls me and says I have to be honest with you. She doesn't think we're going to work out and needs to give back the bracelet. She says I'm very nice and it's her not me. I was shocked and confused of what happened. Sex could not of been that bad..lol I really want to be with her and I thought she felt the same.
Now let me give a little background on her. I know she was extremely hurt in past relationship. In 2008, she finalized her divorce after an 8 year marriage which she said they were never in love. She got pregnant and felt she had to get married to him, then they had another child. He cheated on her more than once and he was verbally and mentally abusive to her. She's dated 2 other guys since then, but it didn't work out. She said she felt she just wasn't ready then. She hasn't dated for about 3 years since then until she met me. She wanted to try dating again plus her friends and family keep encouraging her to move on. Based on my online research, I think after meeting me she felt this is too good to be true and once we had sex it made this relationship real and she got scared.
I'm not sure what to do at this point. Any feedback is appreciated.