Hi I've been involved with my kids father on and off for over 14 years (were both in out early 30's) and he does not show me affection and says I require too much attention. He also doesn't really have too much to say to me because he says he can't because of the type of person I am. So he never confides in me he only tells me dumb stuff like oh his neighbor is hot and I shouldn't get mad if he were to sleep with her or he'll just come out of the blue and tell me little info about things going on but nothing big in his life nothing major we do not have regular conversations its just a lot of silence. He confides a lot in his friends more so than me I feel like I'm not worth more than just having his kids and having sex with him when he wants it. What advice would give me or us?