Dropping by unannounced

[NiaPeach]

Hi All

Do you think it's okay to drop by unannounced to someones house who you are dating? I dropped my friend off at her boyfriends house a little while ago and he didnt seem happy to see her. He didnt seem mad, just confused as if he didnt appreciate the visit without a call. They stood outside for a few minutes which I thought was strange but then he let her in. I called to make sure she was okay and she said yes but he was surprised she didnt call first and told her next time to call just as a courtesy. They have been dating for five months. It made me think. Why would he feel this way if he wasn't hiding anything? Do you all think this is unacceptable?

[stev123]

Why do you care, it's not your relationship. Don't get involved in other peoples relationships because it will backfire.

[lalalita]

If I had nothing to hide, I wouldn't mind. It's actually cute and thoughtful.

When I was with a lying, cheating, douche of a man he insisted he "hated surprises". I wonder why? Oh yeah, because he constantly lied about being home.

[surfhb2]

I wouldn't drop by my mothers house without a call. Bad form and is obviously the work of a younger person

[Emereldess]

I wouldn't drop by my mothers house without a call. Bad form and is obviously the work of a younger person

Pfft! (Lol)

[basilandthyme]

I think it's courtesy to let people know you are intending to visit

[Am I crazy?]

Maybe the dude had his porn collection out and was afraid of getting busted. lol

[klink]

No, it's not polite to do it.
Leave them some room for privacy.

And lalalita: Stalker much.