does she have a right to be mad?

[Wakeup]

^^^ agreed.

[Am I crazy?]

wu, I respect your differing opinion but if you are doing nothing wrong, then why should you need to change your behavior to accommodate a mates insecurities? I know we have been down this path before in our discussions so I will just leave it at that and say that of all the people that I have had discussions with here you are the most level headed and open to others points of views. I wish more were like you.

[Wakeup]

Well thank you for the kind words however; When you're in a partnership it is important to take your other half's feelings and sensibilities into account. should one not want to outright aquience to the other then a suiable compromise should be strived for that would be acceptable to both. IMO: Councelling someone that they've done nothing wrong when it's obvious to everyone else who has responded that he has and more importantly, his SO feels that he has, is illogical. This isn't like she's being a entitilement princess or being unreasonable in her anger.

Perhaps instead of running to the computer to talk to another person about his problems, he and his partner should learn to resolve issues through communicating with one another and keep their bitching to others to the more banal things like "Yea she gave me shit again for leaving the toilet seat up, lol."

Those are my thoughts anyway.

[Am I crazy?]

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" Perhaps instead of running to the computer to talk to another person about his problems, he and his partner should learn to resolve issues through communicating with one another" just curious, how is it different for him or anybody else, for that matter, to be sharing their problems with people here at this site? lol, just sayin.

[HeartIsAching]

...because the people on this site are total strangers who don't know you from Adam?