Originally Posted by
Cat67
I've had what I suppose are orgasms when I'm on my own but they don't involve touching the clitoris
To be honest, I doubt they were orgasms. I know things can feel very good, even without the orgasm, but once you've had one, there is absolutely no mistaking it, no room for doubt.
I think you need to learn how to give yourself an orgasm. Until you can, he will never be able to do it.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?