I want honest objective advice please.

[sadbunnyface]

I don't know. she became distant after I only kissed her on the cheek, she said it still doesn't prove I'm gay. My buddies said I messed up. She already knew how I felt a month ago. I didn't Know exactly what she wanted.

Did she think you were gay? Or did you make a typo and meant to say not gay? That wasn't nice of her to say after a kiss regardless. Let her be for awhile, if she misses you she will contact you.

[Cerby]

TBTH.. I dont think she's interested, and she's a liar too. If she does have issues in her life atm, I would'nt take her on. Putting pressure on her, may push her away.... Thats the physics of it...

Exactly what I was thinking after reading the OP, she doesn't seem interested. But then you compounded it and got all emotional asking about what she wanted with you, instead of manning up and trying to get what you want. Complete turn off for a confident woman.

[sheart]

Did she think you were gay? Or did you make a typo and meant to say not gay? That wasn't nice of her to say after a kiss regardless. Let her be for awhile, if she misses you she will contact you.

She used to say I'm.gay from the start.
And thanks

[smackie9]

Well then she was referring to you being such a pussy for not being confident to at least come onto her. Cerby is right...no confidence=turn off.