Okay..so straight to the matter
We've been in a relationship for almost an year now and by chance i discovered something that hurt me
Okay so there are these 3 guys who liked her while we were dating and then i clearly told her that i felt uncomfortable around them because they actually asked her out and clearly discouraged her from dating me (2 of the 3 while the last one so clearly kept hitting on her) while she was with me and then she promised me that she would never go out with them or even text them (other than the formality texts/replies) which i happily believed back then and thought it was true so far..
and in between when we had fights i found out ( not from her as she tried hiding it ) that she went out alone for dinner and ice cream with 2 of these guys on separate days and alone(its an unwritten rule for us that we established that we would never go alone with any other guy/girl for dinner or a movie or whatever)
Once i found out about this,i confronted her and we talked about it and we made up and she said they dont mean anything and would not ever talk to them and i again believed it but i knew it would take time for me to regain her trust..
fast forward a few months to now when we are on our summer break and we just text each other
so we had another fight recently ( a small one which just lasted an hour ) and we made up..
now i happened to by chance look into her fb messages when she forgot her phone at my place( i know this is wrong but i would have gained her trust fully if i hadn't seen any names out of the ordinary)
but alas i did find one of their names and this led me to read the other 2 guy's messages
so a while back when we had this small fight ,she didnt have her phone with her and so she was messaging everyone on facebook and then i've seen at the time we were fighting (not talking to each other) she sent a hi to these 3 guys and started a conversation and even asked one of these guys to meet her up and to catch a movie with her..
so she clearly went back on her word and it pissed me off this time although it was wrong to look at her messages , i did find something that angered me
I really think i am in love with her and would want to know how to confront her and resolve this issue so that it would never happen again and so that i would be able to trust her again
Thanks