texting aggravates me

[lukeelogan]

Dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half months so far. I text her throughout the day but not a whole lot. Part of me worries she will think I'm losing interest but i'm not. we HAVE talked about this and she has said "she doesn't wanna talk all day" but who knows. She could just be saying that. We see each other 4-5 days a week so I feel when we are NOT together we don't have to be texting. Give some space

[smackie9]

Then give her a dose of space and see how it goes.

[catnip]

we HAVE talked about this and she has said "she doesn't wanna talk all day" but who knows. She could just be saying that.

Do you not trust her to be honest about her feelings? If so, you've got bigger problems than finding texting annoying.

For what it's worth, if someone said they are fine without texting, I'd take them at face value. If they lie about how they feel, then they have no right to complain if their needs aren't getting met. Besides, would you really be content constantly having to text a needy girlfriend?