^^^ I actually agree with that to a point. My question is why have'nt you had intercourse yet? Is she not letting you or are you just not trying because she's laying there like a starfish letting you be America's Got Talent's stand-up comedian contestant while you pleasure her? Something's not right she's either not turned on enough to the point where it turns her on to please YOU ... or, she's just a selfish git an you're incompatible sexually.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion