afraid i'll lose her because of sex

[josh63]

when i got together with my girlfriend, i told her i was a virgin. she said that was fine and she told me she has slept with guys before. i didnt judge her aand i told her i wanted to wait till the right time

well i did wait and we have had sex about 8-9 times. sometimes i feel i do a good job but other times i feel i do really bad

i think i overthink it and i worry i wont please her and then i struggle. she said she will help me become better

i always worry though ill be so bad and wont be able to please her and she will leave me

how can i get over this?

[CleanCut]

Well, I doubt she would leave you because that. If she did, it would be a little shallow as that is something a person can improve upon.

Go build up your PC muscle and rock her world :-)

[michelle23]

foreplay is key. touch her, give her oral. learn hoe to make her orgasm that way first. sex for a woman is different and its much harder to reach orgasm that way. she needs to be REALLY wet and you have to make contact with her clit.

the easiest way is to touch her with clit with your fingers while having sex to start with. then learning how to make her cum while shes on top. she will do most the work-you just have to support her by putting your hands on her hips or lower back and pulling her closer. if you lean forward towards her that helps too.

and finally learn how to make her cum with you on top. easiest way again is to put your hands on her hips and pull her upwards. little tricky, requires practice and muscle

good luck

[Wakeup]

Every girl gets arroused to orgasm differently. Since she's willing to teach you what makes her pop, then I suggest you let her teach you and just learn to have fun while you experiment. She sounds very mature and open and willing to help you become a good lover to her so let her lead for now and once you have the technique that gets her to orgasm down to a fine science, then you take charge of that role and take command. It's all good so chillax and enjoy the journey.

[Rowen]

Here's an idea for next time too- tease her hole a little before entering her. Sometimes that heightens the orgasm, at least it worked for me. This can be done by running your dick up around her vagina sorta to tempt it. And use your index finger to caress it a tiny bit. BUT don't tease it too much...otherwise it just seems like the other person is thinking "C'mon just stick it in already. It's been an hour." I hope that helps... :S