Well I got divorced last year, apparently I yell to much and get frustrated easily. I had everything at one point, a ton of money, a beautiful wife, etc. After the Divorce I started talking to my ex-fiance again. I went and visited her for a month and she said she wanted me to move in. I had my doubts but was such a wreck from my divorce I did it anyway. Things were ok for a while but I started noticing things...She only wore make-up when she went to bar, cell phone was pass word protected and she practically slept with the cell phone. She would vanish for extended periods of time ignoring my calls and text. When I would confront her about that she would become defensive and tell me it was "none of my business."
Well everything started to snow ball. She started wrecking my personal items, throwing my nice work shirts out in the yard. Bit my cell phone cover of the phone, and started threatening to destroy my computer. I really wanted to make this work but she was just being unreasonable. I was sick and had to go to the emergency room, when I got out I drove by the bar and she was in their playing pool with another guy. She is always touchy with other guys hugging them and stuff. This bothers me.
One night I went with her to the bar and she got upset because I bought a drink from a female bartender. She tried to hit me on the head with a beer bottle and started literally chasing me around the bar kicking and hitting me. The security guards forced her to leave, she didn't like that and called the police trying to have me arrested. She ended up getting arrested. After she got out of jail tension just got worse, she went straight back to the bar. About two weeks later she found out she was pregnant and keeps threatening to kill the un-born baby. I got upset and started raising my voice. She responded to this by hitting and kicking me again, threw my cell phone at my head and gave me a huge black eye.
I went outside and the police were already there. She got arrested again is still in jail. I love this girl to death but I don't like how she treats me in public. We went to a casino and she up and leaves with out telling me anything, forcing me to follow here so I don't have to look for her later (She cant drive because of blindness in left eye.)
Should I bail her out and try to make this work again? I want the baby and dont want her to drink and smoke while pregnant. I dont want the mother of my child in jail. But at the same time her family refuses to bail here out because they are upset about what she has done to me. I just dont know what to do any advice?