After being with an abusive man for so long, i finally got the help i needed and left. I havnt been depressed or ridden with anxiety ever since, i did lots of soul searching and felt like i had made a REAL change in my life. I feel like almost a brand new person and i am absolutely loving life for the first time in 5 years or so.
6 months ago i started dating a friend of mine, he asked me out on a date and we have spent every day together since and we fell into place SO very easily. At first i was scared and felt it was too good to be true, then we moved in together after around 4 months of dating. It was very soon, but we spent every night together and it made sense for us since he lived in a different town.
Things became even better since we lived together, we don't argue, he never raises his voice to me or swears, if we have a disagreement we just talk it out together and i know he would never hurt me the way my ex ever did.
Is it strange we dont argue at all? Should there be some balance? I am so used to fighting every sentence that this seems almost unreal..
I am in love with this man and feel so appreciative for everything he does for me i just dont feel the need to ever complain or get on his back about anything, yet when i sometimes talk to my friends and il mention he went out, or is with the guys, they make comments about the fact i let him get away with too much and that he is walking all over me. Yet im kinda happy when he does other stuff, i like my alone time too.
It just got me wondering, sometimes i get scared that iv lost my passion for relationships since my ex, or maybe that i am too much of a pushover. Im not sure. lol