Originally Posted by
Nightshade
I guess part of it IS that I'm bored, or rather, avoiding certain aspects of my life (awful boyfriend, aside..). I don't understand how my intentions on this forum affect your motivation to comment on my posts. Do you take this forum very seriously? If you feel my posts are a waste of your time, by all means, feel free to pass through.
Where did you read that I implied any of that? *shakes head*
Or even leave a friendly "**** you",
Here's one better **** off with your shitty attitude when you're not reading exactly what you want to hear) Sorry but I'm not going to tell you anything different then the picture I see you painting of him.
if it makes you feel better. Antecedent, behaviour, consequence. If you want to play psychologist to randoms on the internet, it may help to remember your ABC's and try to remain objective.
I am objective. The problem is I'm not being biased towards your tunnel vision sorry I've not told you what you want to hear.
At any rate, you're right about a lot of things. I really SHOULD speak more of his finer qualities, especially since I intend on sticking around here(it's good for coffee breaks and late evenings).
No ****ing kidding... stop being a douche. When you get advice or thoughts on what you've posted that make you afraid and defensive. That means you see some truth in it more then it means you disagree with it.
I would like to say again though, that when I initially came here....I did need help and some of you really did make a difference in how my boyfriend and I resolve conflict, as of late. I appreciate the thoughtful advice I received by some of the wiser members of this forum and even the...err....interesting perspectives that some of you shared.
lolzzz
I suppose a certain degree of sanctimony is to be expected around a place like this. I can be cool with that. I hope my response satisfied you.
I don't need satisfying... this is YOUR life that you are complaining about, not mine, schweety pie.
I'm always in a bit of a rush, I don't get much time on the computer.
whatever... your schedule is your schedule. See ya when we see ya
I'm going to try to be more positive with my posts regarding him.
Good because the more you complain about him to us and not communicate to him about your needs not being met, then the more of an emotional disconnect you will find yourself trying to cross with him. Speak with him first about what is troubling you and then if you're not resolving perhaps some UNBIASED opinions here will help you to articulate to HIM whats bothering you.
Last edited by Wakeup; 28-07-13 at 09:43 PM.
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