Are all men perverted, or just mine?

[Nightshade]

So, my boyfriend and I have been kid-free for a week (and will be for another few) and we have taken this opportunity to have a lot of sex. I like porn and so we downloaded a schwackload of it. Now I can't wake up in the morning without having to hear some girl moaning. Not to mention the fact that he asked me if he could stab my babymaker with his fleshrod. I had no idea how depraved he was, Here's the kicker; we had a friend over - this guy is like a brother to me. Anyway they thought I was asleep and started talking about pleasuring women.....gross. Is this normal man-behaviour? I'm sure it is....but some of the things they said were quite nasty. And also, how can you have sex, watch porn, have sex, watch porn, jerk off, then watch porn and want sex again??

[Nightshade]

He's started comparing me with the women in these shows and wanting to do the things on the movies. Is this normal?

[searock]

The thing that would bother me the most about the ones you listed is that he has no problem talking about such intimate details with persons other than his current partner. I would be very uncomfortable with that.

As for the rest, it sounds like you are sexually incompatible. His sex drive is higher than yours, he likes watching porn a lot more often than you do, his porn-watching is actually modifying the way he acts in the bedroom with you, you are clearly concerned and perhaps a bit turned off/repulsed by his seemingly never ending desire. These are all signs that you are sexually incompatible.

The moment it starts feeling uncomfortable or unspontaneous is when you know something's wrong.

[pcmaster]

Your guy is sick !

Enought internet for today.

[michelle23]

Nightshade is your relationship about anything other than sex? This is the third time now. Your bf is f**ked up in the head. He doesnt love you, he has no respect you, he treats you like his property and his slave,he has anger problems,extremely possessive and controlling as well as down right abusive.

Not to mention this is a somewhat new relationship. If he treats you this bad in the beginning, you just wait and see what hes like in a years time. I dare you to say no to him once and stand up to him. He will hit you

I do wonder what is wrong with you that you have not ran a thousands miles from this guy. You need help

[basilandthyme]

Not to mention the fact that he asked me if he could stab my babymaker with his fleshrod.

bahahaha I thought everyone joked around at one time or another with the stupid porn names for genitals.

Seriously though, you've been writing here about issues with this guy for a while. The question to ask is "why are you still with him?"

[michelle23]

Your bf is a narcissistic, pathological, sex addict. Hes toxic and poisin and should not be allowed within 100yardds of any woman or child.

He should be locked up.

[pcmaster]

The question to ask is "why are you still with him?"

I think fleshrod carry the answer.

[Jffs24]

If you didn't want it you shouldn't have been all encouraging of it -- careful what you wish for, ya got it. Easy cum easy go, if ya don't want porn and sex as much say so. Why is it so hard for peeps to talk to each other?

[Nightshade]

Well it's not that I didn't want it, more like I wasn't prepared for it. I just didn't realize the degree of his sexual desires. Now I feel like if I say something, it will seem insecure. But if I don't say anything, this could escalate and I don't think I could handle that.

I know a lot of you think I should leave him, but he's really not that bad.
Certainly there are other women out there who are happily married to men with similar tastes...

[Nightshade]

Isn't it common for some men to be a bit insatiable when it comes to sex? How do men like this not let their needs affect the relationship?

[Nightshade]

I enjoy having sex with him, even when things get a bit shady. I like his high sex drive, but I feel like I can't satisfy him now that we are into all the porn. I know he enjoys himself, he gets off and is really into it. So it's not like I'm mot enough for him. It's just that he wants to **** all the time! I can't physically endure much more and he is getting offended. He has taken me out of my comfort zone the last few days and he still wants more. I'm hoping he gets it out of his system. I will try to take control of thesituation and "take the reigns" in the bedroom. Maybe if I get into it the novelty will wear off and he'll leave me alone.

[Nightshade]

I realize this sounds crazy, but I hope you will remember that there are two sides to every story. He is not all that bad.

[michelle23]

His sex drive is not normal.thats sex addiction.. Soon hell be cheating on you if hes not already

your not compatable. You should never do something sexual you dont want to do. You should just find someone who wants the same as you

[horndog]

Your kids are away and you basically bought him a ticket to the equivalent of an adult sex themed amusement park. Let him have his fun for the week and Im sure he will return to normal after the kids come back. He's living in a fantasy world right now after being all stoked up on porn. He will get over it and I hardly see an addiction. Guys talk about sex with other guys all the time and its completely normal. I wouldn't be too concerned if I were you at this point, if he still carries one with this when the kids come home then I would be concerned, otherwise just keep riding the fleshrod and enjoy yourself.