First anniversary of my proposal! Don't know how to surprise her and what gift?

[Bhoopalan]

Yes I think if you treat people badly or hurt others, one day it will be you feeling that pain. example: my ex cheated on me, we split up and both moved on. He met someone else 6 months later and after being with her for 3 years he found out she was cheating on him for months. That was his karma IMO

I just don't understand how you could come up after realizing that your most loved one cheats you. Must have great courage.

[michelle23]

Its easy to walk away from someone when they prove they are not worthy. I dont think it has anything to do with courage-its self respect. If you marry in India are you ever allowed to walk away?

[Bhoopalan]

If you marry in India are you ever allowed to walk away?

Yeah. Divorce, second marriages use to happen in India too. What I actually meant by courage is... you don't need courage to walk away from a cheating partner. But when you happen to know that the partner that you trusted with your life has cheated on you... if I were in such a situation, I would find my life to be blank from that point. My whole life seems to be surrounded by her. All of a sudden if every belief shatters, I just don't even want to imagine how that would be. This is not an Indian view in common. This is my individual view.

[michelle23]

Ya i understand. It is v difficult for anyone to deal with i would imagine but you just have to be strong if it does. We mourn every loss and then we heal. As much as it hurts, pain is only temporary. The heart is strong and time heals everything. You just have to believe youu can get through it and you will