Who should have made the move, me or her?

[actualgoodguy]

I have pursued men before, but only after they've expressed interest and of course I find them attractive too. Most of the time I don't have to do too much work, but sometimes guys/men need a little nudge to get the ball rolling at the speed I desire.

In my experience, most men have sat there "watching from afar" until I have initiated something first. They doubt whether I am interested so I have to tell/show them. I would rather seek men out who I am attracted to and go get them vs. wiating for them. But, I guess this method hasn't really provided me with the type of man I really want...a strong one. SHM in confusion.

It's hard to find a strong confident guy who isn't just interested in sex. My breakdown of guys imo:

Confident/douchey/looking for sex - He will marry, but might divorce or cheat too. Not the guy you want
Shy, but a p***y, lacks confidence - He will marry, won't cheat or divorce, but she will wear the pants in the relationship. Not the guy you want
Gay - Will go shopping and talk gossip with you. Not the guy you want (for marriage)
Confident but shy/wants love just as much as sex - Winner but very rare with all the douchiness and p*ss**s of today

[BackUpOrGetStng]

childbirth is nothing like what you see on the movies. If there is nothing wrong and everything goes really smoothly-then its not that bad as far as I know.

As far as you know huh? You read about midwifery on the internet, and now you're an expert on that too? It's a ****ing 8 pound football coming out of your vagina. Not that bad? Idiot.

[surfhb2]

It's hard to find a strong confident guy who isn't just interested in sex. My breakdown of guys imo:

Confident/douchey/looking for sex - He will marry, but might divorce or cheat too. Not the guy you want
Shy, but a p***y, lacks confidence - He will marry, won't cheat or divorce, but she will wear the pants in the relationship. Not the guy you want
Gay - Will go shopping and talk gossip with you. Not the guy you want (for marriage)
Confident but shy/wants love just as much as sex - Winner but very rare with all the douchiness and p*ss**s of today

You would know.....you're neither confident nor interested in sex

[pcmaster]

I agree with Michelle. Its not that bad at all. Just a natural process after all. Except the little teared vagina, striated belly and saggy breats after breastfeeding. But like my biology teacher said : you are not a real mother if you dont think its worth it. Second child should be pure pleasure. Might be even easier than poop. Only result is better.

[actualgoodguy]

You would know.....you're neither confident nor interested in sex

Haha, well I'd say I'm quiet confident with an enormous inner cockiness I rarely, if ever display. I do want and am interested in sex, but just not with every girl with a vag like most guys

[Maple1714]

I agree with Michelle. Its not that bad at all. Just a natural process after all. Except the little teared vagina, striated belly and saggy breats after breastfeeding. But like my biology teacher said : you are not a real mother if you dont think its worth it. Second child should be pure pleasure. Might be even easier than poop. Only result is better.

Hahaha OR elect to have a c-section (no vagina tear), get a breast lift/breast implants and exercise during pregnancy so you don't get stretch marks.

It's a total misconception that a women's body goes to shit after having kids. Just gotta take care of yourself.

[Maple1714]

Haha, well I'd say I'm quiet confident with an enormous inner cockiness I rarely, if ever display. I do want and am interested in sex, but just not with every girl with a vag like most guys

You need to have sex soon.

[pcmaster]

Guy I think she wanted to quicky bang you after work but since you didnt wanted to "rush" her, she lost interest. If so now it will be impossibke to meet her.
Seen it happening with virgin girls instead of guys like you.

[actualgoodguy]

Guy I think she wanted to quicky bang you after work but since you didnt wanted to "rush" her, she lost interest. If so now it will be impossibke to meet her.
Seen it happening with virgin girls instead of guys like you.

Haha, highly unlikely but if so there's plenty of douches for the slut lol

[pcmaster]

How old are you? How many GFs you had? Have you seen a girls bedroom "flower" in real life?

[actualgoodguy]

How old are you? How many GFs you had? Have you seen a girls bedroom "flower" in real life?

24, 0 gf's, yes though it was brief, she wanted sex, I pushed her off and that was all she wrote lol, she was pissed to say the least

[michelle23]

That's cause guys want sex more, that's the reason men pursue women in the first place. If you're a very attractive women this works. Most guys you will get though will only be looking for some p***y but every now and then you will find a genuine guy, a lot of sifting if you're patient.

I have never been used by anyone in my life so what you just said goes over my head.. Plus its rare gor a good looking girl to be used. Normally the ugly ones by ugly guys.. Are you familiar with jeremy kyle? Watch it and you will see where i got my theory from.

As for childbirth i have seen real vids.. Im sure it does hurt a lot but ive never heard women complain after coz they think the pain was worth it. Plus i honestly think some of those women are drama wueens screaming their fecking heads off on those reality shoes. Loads of my friends have kids and none of them screamed like that

[michelle23]

It's hard to find a strong confident guy who isn't just interested in sex. My breakdown of guys imo:

Confident/douchey/looking for sex - He will marry, but might divorce or cheat too. Not the guy you want
Shy, but a p***y, lacks confidence - He will marry, won't cheat or divorce, but she will wear the pants in the relationship. Not the guy you want
Gay - Will go shopping and talk gossip with you. Not the guy you want (for marriage)
Confident but shy/wants love just as much as sex - Winner but very rare with all the douchiness and p*ss**s of today

1. Is cocky-not confident. Theres a BIG difference
2. More likely to cheat. Insecurity is a disease
3. Obviously
4. Confident with high self esteem-the only guys im interested in

[michelle23]

As far as you know huh? You read about midwifery on the internet, and now you're an expert on that too? It's a ****ing 8 pound football coming out of your vagina. Not that bad? Idiot.

When did i say i was an expert? Childbirth is not supposed to be painful. Its actually supposed to be orgasmic. Do your research. Apparantly it only hurts coz women get the wrong preparation during pregnancy and treated like ill patients even though its a completely natural thing. Animals give birth all the time without any help or pain killers.

[Wakeup]

Okay.. sorry to "contradict" you again schweety pie but... I think you read that wrong, luv. The sounds she makes during early labour often sounds like those that a woman makes during the throes of an orgasm.

Lots of people do it without pain killers too but that doesn't mean it doesnt ****ing hurt like a sonofabitch nor does it mean that they've gotten the "wrong preparations during prgnancy."

When you've had your lot, come in and we'll discuss it then. You'll have had some experience and if your's as easy as you make it out to be, then all the power to you.