I basically was back at this girl i likes place and we accidentally head butted each other during sex. Sounds stupid i know but she was really upset and refused to talk to me for the rest of the night. She said she felt sick, and to be honest it made me sick that during the night i had to run to the toilet to throw up. Bit of hellish night. But anyway i apologised but she was having none of it. Anytime during the night i tried to cuddle her she just took my arm off her. Did feel bad at the time to be honest, but it was an accident. Got a bit worse In the morning she just looked at me smiling, i think she'd cheered up a bit but i had to leave early because she had to go to the airport, so we didn't have a chance to talk about it. all i asked was 'did you have a good night?' and she said 'yeah, it just finished badly.'
This is the first time something like this has happened to me during sex and its just unfortunate that it had to happen with a girl i like, but do you think she over reacted by being so off to me? or is she in the right? It has bothered me a lot recently and did feel bad about it afterwards, but i suppose these things happen. I guess what i'm asking is from a girls perspective is it a big deal? cause she sure as hell made it one.
also i don't wanna leave things between us like this (we're friends with benefits btw) but i'm gonna give her a few days to calm down before i text her. I just don't know what to say in the text though, any thoughts?
thanks