Originally Posted by
namemyname
Here's the flaw in your logic, hon.
You think that sleeping with him is going to somehow convey your romantic interest, and desire to date him.
WRONG.
The only thing that it will tell him is that you wanted to have sex with him, and were willing to do it with no strings attached.
You NEED to learn how to communicate with people. You're not a child, so stop acting like one. This guy isn't a mind reader (if he was, wouldn't he have figured out already you like like him?).
I mean, what's the plan - you go through life using shyness as an excuse for not being able to discuss your feelings and intentions with men? FAIL.
Your option, your ONLY option, is to be honest with him. If you don't feel you can do it in person, then send him an email, write him a love letter - SOMETHING that at least tells him why you act like you do, and how you feel about him. Stop hiding.