WU: i know hes in therapy. my point was is it worth it after only being with someone a short time.

id understand if they had been married ten years, lost a child (god forbid) or he went to war and came back a different abusive man who needs therapy and support.

my point was: this is who he is, who he has always been. is he worth all this hard work, patience and effort.

sure he can change if he really wants to but my point was id rather start a new relationship with someone who isnt so f**ked up. and this is still a new relationship