We're mid twenties. She has a coworker who I'm friends with and regularly play games online with his roommate and we communicate over skype. Tonight I heard him come home from work after working a shift with my girlfriend and as soon as he came in the door he yelled out "XXXX did something tonight that makes me want to **ck her more than ever"
I'm a pretty laid back, nonconfrontational guy, mostly becuase I'm generally nice and easy to get along with. This means I rarely get into situations since I'm usually just on good terms with everyone. I wanted to be an adult about it so I tried calling him to let him know I had overheard him and didn't appreciate it. He didn't answer, but then sent me a huge text apologizing and saying it was an "oh shit" moment, he didn't mean it, values our friendship, etc.
Now, my gf is gorgeous, and I think she's the most beautiful girl in the world. If I were single I'd feel the way he does about her, but she's not single. I replied to him letting him know that I know she's great, I'm lucky to wake up next to her for the past two years. Thanks for the apology now apologize to her too and know that were going to make fun of you for a while for this because thats the price you pay for being a jackass."
just wondering if I could have handled it better? My gf said it was sweet so that's what counts eh?