So I was eight ex for there years and I love her more than anything in the world!! Recently she broke up with me and I can't stop thinking about her. We seemed to be made for eachother she was my best friend we had the same interest she was perfect I would do anything for her. She told me that she left me because she felt like she couldn't do anything and it all started to change when her friend came home from the summer and wanted her to go to the bars and hang out all the time. Another problem I'm having is that me and her grandpa are really close and we talk all the time he's like a mentor to me and I really enjoy spending time with her family and I'm afraid if she doesn't take me back that I will lose them too! She says she just needs time and I don't want to lose her I want to spend the rest of my life e with her. I've never been so depressed I can't get her out of my head and its affecting my day to day life! Please help me. She also contacted my sister to talk about it because they are friend and she told me that out sounded like she wanted to eventually get back together with me. She just needs time and space to think.