Hi I meet this guy via eharmony. We started talking in eharmony since july, but he seemed to have a busy schedule and we could spend weeks without hearing from each other. At the end of august we spoke on the phone, went so well that we decided to meet each other. First date was perfect, we clicked, nicest evening. We kissed and he was so happy. He is a divorced man with two children, had a tough marriage. We then saw each other both days in the weekend. We decided to close our eharmony and start dating seriously each other. It was great, we always have fun, never argue, just simple happy time, time I really treasure. He knows I have issues since most of the guys I dated didn't give me much time, they actually always had excuses to not seeing me, so he promised he wouldn't be that way.
He has been having trouble at work, extra hours, being cut out of projects, and he is just really stressed out. He has been telling me this all week. We had planned out this weekend together (since he doesn't have his kids). Well las night he called me told me he was just to stressed that it was too much at work, too much with the kids and the ex, and he didn't want to spoil things with me but that he couldn't give me the time I deserved. That this weekend he couldn't make it since on saturday now he has to work, and on sunday take his boy to a sport event. Told him I wanted to see him friday, he said that he was too depressed and miserable to see me. I then told him I supported him, but that he had to think about thinks, about us, if he still wanted us to date or if this was more stress for him. Called him last night didn't pick up, called me some minutes later, not really wanting to talk, telling me he was trying to figure out the schedule with his kids since the new work load was spoiling his weekends, told him goodnight. I slept so bad and sad. Texted him a simple goodmorning. Minutes later he texted me goodmorning, caling me babe, telling me thanks for the support I give him and saying he was sorry for not being very supportive about it. I didn't respond back, so he wrote random stuff he was doing, still didn't respond back, and he wrote why I was being so quiet. Minutes later I responded casually and just telling him random stuff of the day.
Do you think things are ok with us? I still feel unsure of everything. And he is such a nice guy, always treats me right, I really don't want to lose him.
Please give me some advice.
Thank you