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  1. 23-09-13, 08:23 PM #16
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    Quote Originally Posted by 4 ratties View Post
    Sounds trashy and desperate.
    How the hell is that trashy and desperate? Being trashy is just being a whore and getting toyed with all the time and allowing yourself to be be treated like trash and used all the time. In other words, getting ran thru and tossed to the side, willingly. Being desperate is trying to hold on to a relationship that's not working, especially if he moving out of town and realistically they know it's not going to work. It would be desperate if she was doing it in hopes to hang on to him. If you're not on bad terms, being foolishly used or is being disrespected, I don't see how you got trashy and desperate out of that.
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  2. 23-09-13, 10:26 PM #17
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    I can't even imagine how empty I would be feeling after "goodbye sex." Far worse, I'm sure then if we just said our goodbyes and went on our way.

    I agree, to me (without experience of course) that it does sound, if nothing else, rather desperate. If I ever have to do it... I'll report back with full depressing details. (knocks on wood that that won't ever be necessary).
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  3. 23-09-13, 11:07 PM #18
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    I guess it depends on the situation and person. I, howevet don't see how it's trashy. I can imagine feeling empty if you really liked the person but not trashy. I guess people have different opinions on the word trashy. If I really liked him, yea I would feel a little empty but not desperate or trashy. Hopefully we would keep some sort of contact. If he approached me like, hey you gonna let me get some before I go, then I wouldn't like that but if we wre cool friends then if I wanted to then sure. As long as i'm not being disrespected.
  4. 23-09-13, 11:45 PM #19
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    I don't agree to the "trashy" discriptor from Rattie, Star.
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  5. 24-09-13, 01:25 AM #20
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    lol cool story, bro
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  6. 24-09-13, 02:24 PM #21
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    goodbye sex is stupid, and if you never had sex to begin with when have it to end with? having sex for sake of is meaningless isn't it if you aren't interested in that person anymore.
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  7. 24-09-13, 08:28 PM #22
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    Waste of time and effort. Just focus on meeting someone else and moving on.
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    Yes, waste of time...
  9. 25-09-13, 10:18 AM #24
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    Hmmm. Yeah, I guess I'd feel that way too if the man didn't want me for one reason or another.
  10. 25-09-13, 10:54 AM #25
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    Three weeks and no prior sex between you two? Dude didn't deserve more than a handjob. If that.
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  11. 25-09-13, 08:19 PM #26
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    Even for me as a man, it's strange.
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