I fell in love with someone on a web site. He is also in love with me and we have been in this online relationship now for three years. There are many problems within our relationship but the one i'm most in need of advice on is this.
As I said we have been together now for three years and, we have never met. He has stated that he wants to take our relationship further. He has gone so far as to express his desire for us to be together as a couple. To take this relationship forward (since we have never met) I feel needs to go through certain steps to find out if we are indeed compatible. One of those I believe should be meeting through video cam first. We have both seen many different pictures of one another that we have shared, so its not like we don't already know what we look like.....but he does not want to video cam with me. This has caused us a lot of grief because I feel its a necessary thing to do for me, to be able to not only trust in the things he's said, a(of how he feels towards me) but also to begin to take our relationship to another level. He and I have fought and argued about this issue for months now, so much so that I'm wondering if he really does mean what he says about how much he loves me and, how he truly wants to be with me.
I'm at my wits end on where to go from here and, I have to one to talk to about this problem. I feel he does love me...I'm just not so sure that he loves me as much as he claims if he cant do for me or for us something as simple as video chat.
Please help!