is my boyfriend asking for too much?

[Starnique]

How is she a prostitute?

I'm personally not going to lay up with a guy that can't or won't do anything for me. Take it how you want to take it. If you know I need a coat, get me a coat. If I see a sweater or anything my boyfriend would like or need, then I'm going to get it. If someone is seeing me, then yeah it's an obligation. We have an obligation to look out for each other.

[Starnique]

Jenny,

He's getting over on your. He's making you his playmate and controlling you.

That still don't make you a prostitute though and I still meant what I said about being taken care of.

[surfhb2]

How is she a prostitute?

I'm personally not going to lay up with a guy that can't or won't do anything for me. Take it how you want to take it. If you know I need a coat, get me a coat. If I see a sweater or anything my boyfriend would like or need, then I'm going to get it. If someone is seeing me, then yeah it's an obligation. We have an obligation to look out for each other.

Duh! Thats what self serving, do nothing cunts do

[Starnique]

Only broke ass, good for nothing vagina boys feel the way you feel.

Self serving, gold digger...so be it. Cunt? Mines is great. Whatever.

[michelle23]

Shes not good for nothing. Shes working and in college, paying her own way and barely getting by..

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[surfhb2]

Only broke ass, good for nothing vagina boys feel the way you feel.

Self serving, gold digger...so be it. Cunt? Mines is great. Whatever.

Unlike your man, I get my cunts for free!

[surfhb2]

Shes not good for nothing. Shes working and in college, paying her own way and barely getting by..

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Exactly! Id wish she'd stop this thinking that this guy owes her. I mean Cmon....what kind of woman doesnt know her SOs age....even if he was lying.

[michelle23]

Exactly! Id wish she'd stop this thinking that this guy owes her. I mean Cmon....what kind of woman doesnt know her SOs age....even if he was lying.

But he told her he wants to support her and his actions say different. Im not saying she should take him up on that offer. I believe in independance, equality etc but hes saying one thing and doing another. I believe she should dump him. He cant be trusted

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[Starnique]

Duh! Thats what self serving, do nothing cunts do

Smdfh.

I dont know how you got self serving out of this.

How is she a prostitute?

I'm personally not going to lay up with a guy that can't or won't do anything for me. Take it how you want to take it. If you know I need a coat, get me a coat. If I see a sweater or anything my boyfriend would like or need, then I'm going to get it. If someone is seeing me, then yeah it's an obligation. We have an obligation to look out for each other.

If you didnt get it then learn how to read facts. I dont have feel like breaking it down to you or going back and forth and most importantly, my time is way too precious.

I thought a prostitute was a person that sleeps around for money, tricking and maybe even walking the streets etc and selling themselves. How is she prostituting with her bf of 4 years? How is a man looking out for his woman tricking her? It's not tricking if you got it homie.

[Starnique]

Shes not good for nothing. Shes working and in college, paying her own way and barely getting by..

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I've been supporting her this whole time. I didnt say she was good for nothing, I said this particular poster who is feeding her a bunch of bullshit about not supporting OP which is foreign to me (given their situation).

[michelle23]

I've been supporting her this whole time. I didnt say she was good for nothing, I said this particular poster who is feeding her a bunch of bullshit about not supporting OP which is foreign to me (given their situation).

I was responding to HIA. Not you

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[TablesandChairs]

My ex supported me while I was at Uni, which I was for another 2.5 years after we met. He paid for everything (including my luxuries) and told me that whatever I made from my part time job should stay in my account and once it accumulated to something significant, we could go on holiday or something fun. He was not rich but nowhere near as tight as your rich boyfriend...there was never any question about getting me things I needed for Uni (laptops, hardware, books).

After I finished Uni and got a job, I supported him while he went back to finish his studies (around 1.5 years). I was earning a fair bit after my first year so I took him on a holiday etc. I don't even like saying *I* took him because it was our money anyway. $ never came between us - it was 'ours', not mine or his.

You've been with this dude for 4 years - what's his, is his. Fair enough, but I wouldn't be counting on being a house-wife...you'll end up on a strict allowance and will stay home with the child/children while he continues living it up.

[Honeygirl]

Hi Jenny,

It sounds like there is a trust issue at least, still after 4 years of being together. I feel he misused his power by not being honest with you about his age, just because he wanted to be sure he would get what he wanted (getting to know you). That is a very bad thing in the beginning of any relationship and especially when he is so much older and knows how important it is to have a level playingfield between partners. And you being so young back then. He could have tried other ways to get to know you better despite your age, but instead he tipped the powerbalance in his favour by disinforming you.
I hope you had good talks about that and he knows that he should not ever keep you in the dark again over anything. So that he disables you from making your own free choice in any matter.

If you feel generally happy and if you feel that the balance isn't completely off between you two I agree you should have talks with him about all of the issues in your first post. A relationship grows from openness, hearing each others opinions, annoyances, frustrations, sides, etc. Even if you disagree, just let that be clear, take your time.
Also, I wonder what you think about the gambling. It's a sure way to lose money, only addicts are convinced otherwise. It's a choice he makes rather than investing money in you and him and your future together. It's a choice he's been making, still after all this time together. I wonder how you feel about that? If you feel it's an addiction (I can't think of any other reason, he could be saving for trips for you both or for a house, for anything constructive really).
And a last advice, please keep talking to some intimate friends or family about your relationship and the issues with your guy. People who care about you will try to think with you, as you do with them. Take care!

[4 ratties]

That's the best Man U could find these last four years? A guy who cares about u so much that he doesn't help u buy a winter coat?
Get a better job or second job and tell him u need him to help u or your not being a housewife with low income to herself.