How is it going to ruin his career if it hasn't already and now he isn't even responding to me..If you care at all about him, leave him alone because you will ruin his career if you keep this up.
I'm also curious why he hasn't told anyone again, even though I am again contacting him with emails/ texts, and told him I'm now going to send Christmas card by mail. (I partly let him know that in advance to see his reaction, but nothing followed). He knows full well I'm going to try to make up with him again now..