Originally Posted by
smackie9
I agree with everyone her issues but what about him? he's only known her for a week and he is asking to go away with him on the weekend?? Needs validation, been cheated on, paranoid, highly suspicious, talking about kids and marriage, meet his dad all in one week?Am I missing something here?
She's wondering if she blew it so I've given her some reasons why she may have given him some red flags about herself due to her words not matching her actions. His red flags were already presented in the opening post but she also failed to see those and went along on the committment train full throttle.
As I said, they both are better off without one another.
I felt I was there as a peace maker or something. It was utterly bizarre and now talking about it on here actually accentuates the fact that it was completely weird. I also met his client too while I was away. God this just looks so odd. I clearly am really bad at seeing huge red flags.
Do you see where your actions showed him that you were moving just as fast as he was? Most people who only knew someone for 1 week wouldn't go away with someone to meet family. Nor would they take the role as 'peace maker' when there has been zero committment made to one another.
Last edited by Wakeup; 25-12-13 at 09:43 AM.
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