Guys- would you date a girl that's been in a MMF threesome?

[someguyintexas]

You're a liar, a hypocrite and a troll.

See, that's harsh... Do you regret that? Should you be ostracized for that comment? Our past helps make us who we are today, it is how we grow and mature. Our mistakes make us better people.

[vashti]

You're a liar, a hypocrite and a troll.

No, my worth is far above rubies. Eshet chayil.

[anastasis]

Rubies are no that rare, it's a semi-precisions stone. Hard to say if she has repented in her own heart though she might not regret what she has done. I have done drugs in the distant past, though I would never do them again, I do not regret the life experience it afforded me. I am not saying it's the right path for everyone, just saying that we all have things in our past we are not proud of. What a lonely world this would be if we condemned everyone based on something they did against our personal codex.

I'm certainly glad I haven't condemned anyone.

Without Justice there can be no definition of Mercy.

To have Mercy without Change is False Mercy.

jms girlfriend not only has no changes, but sees no issues.

To be done with here is not only Justice but Wisdom.

To remain with her is Injustice and all Unwisdom.

Let her slither among the reptiles in the pits of her own ilk.

It is unfitting to treat the Whore as if she were the noble Queen.

For if you do she may begin to believe she is the noble Queen.

[anastasis]

No, my worth is far above rubies. Eshet chayil.

You're worth is far below horse manure. At least you can stimulate plant growth with horse manure.

[anastasis]

See, that's harsh... Do you regret that? Should you be ostracized for that comment? Our past helps make us who we are today, it is how we grow and mature. Our mistakes make us better people.

It isn't harsh. It's quite balanced and True.

[someguyintexas]

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone...

[anastasis]

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone...

Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double...

[someguyintexas]

Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double...

I am sorry... Maybe I missed something on his original post. Did she have the MMF while she was with him? From what I read it was in her past... He is treating her as she has treated him not according to her past.

Dude, forgive her even if she is not asking for forgiveness. Love her as she loves you. Treat her as an angel in your life, a princess. She is not a "Whore" for sexual experimentation from her past. She is the woman you love so, love her.

[someguyintexas]

Wait... Isn't this "Ask a Male" forum anyway? Something you want to come clean about Anastasis?

[anastasis]

Wait... Isn't this "Ask a Male" forum anyway? Something you want to come clean about Anastasis?

Yes.

You're a troll.

[someguyintexas]

Yes.

You're a troll.

I am shorter that allot of guys I know but I don't think I fall into the "Troll" status... Not sure what this has to do with his MMF situation though or his prospects for a FFM down the road...

[anastasis]

I am shorter that allot of guys I know but I don't think I fall into the "Troll" status... Not sure what this has to do with his MMF situation though or his prospects for a FFM down the road...

This will explain it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqERj2ckEgs

[someguyintexas]

This will explain it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqERj2ckEgs

I don't agree with you so you classify my as "dumb"? Not sure how you came to that conclusion. Glad to see you jump straight to insults though when others disagree with you. I do not look down on you for it, in fact, I even forgive you.

[anastasis]

I don't agree with you so you classify my as "dumb"? Not sure how you came to that conclusion. Glad to see you jump straight to insults though when others disagree with you. I do not look down on you for it, in fact, I even forgive you.

I didn't classify you as anything. I provided you with a YouTube link.

If you believe that you are dumb than perhaps you should begin some positive daily affirmations and begin to crack open some books for self improvement, personal growth and maturation.

[someguyintexas]

I've been dating this girl recently and really like her, and she also says she wants to be in a relationship with me. I'm hung up on the fact that she did this, and its so hard trying not to picture it when I'm with her, its driving me crazy. I can't perform with her sexually since I found out. She has no history of cheating, and said this was a one time fun experience that happened when she was single earlier this year that fulfilled a fantasy for her. She says I turn her on way more, and she likes me so much, etc, but feels she has nothing to apologize for since she did this before she even met me. I know I've done things in the past she doesn't like and know I'm being a hypocrite, and I want to get past this, but want to know if you guys see this as a red flag, or just the past should stay in the past? Could you guys get over this? Any help would be much appreciated.

Dude, post this in the "Ask a Female Forum" so you can get some guys to respond... I think only women are responding in the "Ask a Male Forum"