Parents want us to break up, But we are still in love :(

[Mollyann]

So to start out I have always been a devout Christian and have always had really good morals and still believe that I do. About 8 months ago My boyfriend and I started dating and we were friends in high school and are both 19 now, but when we started dating he was leaving for school in AZ and i was going to college in WA. we moved along sexually very fast and everything seemed fine. We of corse had some arguments here and there but the distance wasnt that bad. My mother on the other hand made it clear she didnt like him due to the fact he dint have a set faith like I did but she was willing to get to know him over christmas when he came down to see me after 6 months apart. He got here and every thing was going good untill my mother read through my phone and read our sexual conversations, We had said some things that made my parents believe he was manipulating me into liking things I shouldn't. and they now think that I dont know what I want and am to young to know. He was into porn before we started dating but stopped once we started dating. My mom and I got into it and she said she was concerned, to make a long story short now Three days after he has left my parents are telling me to break it off with him and that he is a evil, slick son of a *****. I want to do what makes my parents happy, but im in so much turmoil over how I feel and what is right for me. I still love him so much and It hurts so bad to think of not having him, and he is broken up over all of this and has called weeping about how he would do anthing and he wishes that we would have never sent those texts. I am also trying to HONOR GODS WILL as well, My parents say that we are a hopless couple in gods eyes,and yes we have messed up, but is there hope for us still??? Can we still continue to date and try and make it right with them even after they want us to break up??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[basilandthyme]

So to start out I have always been a devout Christian and have always had really good morals and still believe that I do. About 8 months ago My boyfriend and I started dating and we were friends in high school and are both 19 now, but when we started dating he was leaving for school in AZ and i was going to college in WA. we moved along sexually very fast and everything seemed fine. We of corse had some arguments here and there but the distance wasnt that bad. My mother on the other hand made it clear she didnt like him due to the fact he dint have a set faith like I did but she was willing to get to know him over christmas when he came down to see me after 6 months apart. He got here and every thing was going good untill my mother read through my phone and read our sexual conversations, We had said some things that made my parents believe he was manipulating me into liking things I shouldn't. and they now think that I dont know what I want and am to young to know. He was into porn before we started dating but stopped once we started dating. My mom and I got into it and she said she was concerned, to make a long story short now Three days after he has left my parents are telling me to break it off with him and that he is a evil, slick son of a *****. I want to do what makes my parents happy, but im in so much turmoil over how I feel and what is right for me. I still love him so much and It hurts so bad to think of not having him, and he is broken up over all of this and has called weeping about how he would do anthing and he wishes that we would have never sent those texts. I am also trying to HONOR GODS WILL as well, My parents say that we are a hopless couple in gods eyes,and yes we have messed up, but is there hope for us still??? Can we still continue to date and try and make it right with them even after they want us to break up??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your parents call themselves Christians, yet they apparently do not believe in redemption and loving their fellow man. I guess they wouldn't have given Mary Magdaline the time of day. Personally, I wouldn't trust them to interpret Gods word correctly.

As far as I can see, if he's treating you with love and respect, then he's ok.

[anastasis]

Jesus is the universal archetype of the Bridegroom. He came to marry the Ecclesia and make her his bride. He didn't come to send her little sex messages on phones and f*ck her when dad wasn't around.

I think your boyfriend is a creep, I think you're a creep and I don't think that either one of you have any idea what Christianity is about to begin with. That's all for starters.

The second issue is that you're parents are right. You can continue to f*ck each other all you want, but don't try to baptize this into some kind of sanctimonious victimhood. You're 19. Go do what you want. But don't ever try to make it 'Christian'. That's just nausiating and annoying.

[Boisdevie]

I don't trust religious nutters and especially those that 'interpret' religion to fit in nicely their own ****ed up opinions.

OK, you're religious so stop asking us what to do - ask the sky fairy direct. Last I heard he was all seeing, all knowing so I'm sure he'll have an answer for ya.

[anastasis]

I don't trust religious nutters and especially those that 'interpret' religion to fit in nicely their own ****ed up opinions.

OK, you're religious so stop asking us what to do - ask the sky fairy direct. Last I heard he was all seeing, all knowing so I'm sure he'll have an answer for ya.

He's already gotten back to us on that and says,

"Cowards, Infidels, the Abominable, Murderers, Fornicators, Sorcerers, Idolaters, and all Liars shall have their part in the Abyss that burns with Fire & Brimstone, which is the Second Death.” -- Revelation 21:8

He's given His opinion. He really doesn't about ours.

You see, everyone has an opinion. We'll find out whose mattered soon enough.

God might think you're opinion is ****ed up. Literally.

[pcmaster]

This story is very sinfull and I vomited many times after reading it. Using phone for sending sexual messages? Didnt even know its possible to use phone for such naughty things. You two vomits from hell should be talking about marriage and God. Your only hope is go to church and get a preachers blessing.

Seriously people who believes in religion a lot and putting Gods will over others is fuller of shit than "sinners". In reality your parents are having hard time to see their dauther growing up and learning that she have pussy and that one day she will love someone more than them. For them you still are that little girl in sandbox. Thats where your parents are comfortable.. To accept anything else they should change themself but thats not easy so they rather change you and dont let you get out of the sandbox.
With all that you should keep your private life private and realise that there always will be people against your personal growth. Also every couples have point where they break free and dont care what others think of them, and just express their emotions without being affected from people outside. You can live your life or life others wants from you but in the end whos gona live your life?

[anastasis]

^^^ Go do what he says and **** yourselves like you want to anyway. Get out of Christianity and stop meddling around with all this justification and victimization horseshit.

Go be like the rest of the soulless, profane assholes who tromp around this world in their pomp and confidence firmly believing in their fickle, huddling majorities that no one will ever take their evil into account. We want you all to be strong and confident. We don't want you to be little petty sniveling enemies, we want you to be raving mad enemies beating drums and clanging on beastplate with spear ready to overthrow New Jerusalem like the delusional, hellbound psychotic lunatics you are.

So go on now. Run along and get lost.

[Wakeup]

. Last I heard he was all seeing, all knowing so I'm sure he'll have an answer for ya.

Isn't it the Wizard of Oz that's all seeing and all knowing?

He was into porn before we started dating but stopped once we started dating.

lol..

Anyway, no matter what you decide to do.. To break up with him altogether or keep fking him while telling your parents you've broken up with him. (Like most good catholic schoolgirls ) then make sure you visit your local clinic and get a supply of condoms and/or go on the pill. You don't want a little illigitimate devil running around making your non-adhering golden rule parents proud.

[surfhb2]

Child abuse continuing on into adulthood.....beautiful.....just beautiful!