Hi
I just spent the week in hospital with my partner. I am 22 years old and this is my first proper relationship my partner is 32. I knew he had a condition (still not sure what it is called since it's a very long medical term he used with the dr I know what it entails though) from the beginning but this is the first time since we have been going out (for 9 months now) that he has gone to hospital. It never really hit reality until now not just him going to hospital more so what he said in hospital when we were discussing a 80 yr old man that was in the hospital bed across to him that spent the day listening to the radio and I said you will be like that when you're 80. And he said I won't live that long. I questioned him about it and even though I knew, it still hurts. He explained (once again to me) that been in and our of hospital for years. This was the longest period he's been away from having to be admitted to hospital (just over a year).
I don't know if I can handle this? We have spoken about having kids together in the future but the fear of having kids then him dying etc. Maybe it's just the shock of reality. It's weird because I volunteer at a suicide prevention hotline and I have talked a few people out of committing suicide but yet this is too much for me?
I don't know. Maybe I'm being self fish I know it is my choice in the end, one what I do but needed fresh thoughts and opinions I may not have thought about.