I'm worried he now only sees me as a friend with benefits
Well let me make this clear to you so that you can stop worrying.
1. You will not be a booty call if you don't allow yourself to be a booty call. You are the boss of you and all you need to do differently is start framing yourself as the prize that he should be happy to be with. If he's not happy to be with you, then you have to have the gurlballzzzz to stop seeing him. PERIOD. You sound desperate and pathetic by placing your life in his hands when you've only been on three effing dates with this guy. WTF? He's not god.
2. If the sex for him was as good as it was for you, then no matter how he views you ~ he will be back for more of the same. When he comes back. Don't allow him to frame it as a booty call. If he wants to do something where there is a bed handy, then you just tell him that you'd like to go to the show or a bite to eat or a walk in the park or a ride on the subway--- anything other then framing yourself as booty. If he doesn't take you out, then fvck him and the horse he rode in on. STOP STOP STOP. Framing him as the prize that you'll die without. FFS.
BTW: You will booty (not friends with benefits) if you allow yourself to be. You have to have been friends prior to screwing before you can be a FWB.
Harsh? Well sorry but when I read desperation like that My inner bitch comes out so that you realize that you are more important then you think you are and that you DO NOT have to place all your power in the hands of a man you don't even yet know. Keep it real ffs.
Last edited by Wakeup; 30-01-14 at 09:21 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion