What's wrong

[kingston]

I am a divorcee from IN. I 'm average looking woman in my 30s.

I am not sure why no guy is ever interested in me? With what all happened in my life, I am still very positive, down to earth, very helping and have a golden heart (This is a real fact but I never try to impose myself and my thinking to anyone ). I am fairly intelligent and earning good. Some men refer me as "someone near perfection".

I find who ever I like are already taken either committed or married. None is ever interested & I want to know what's wrong?
Are only good looks and hard-to-get attitude on your list or "nearing-perfection" is killing me?

I am sorry for sounding stupid, but I am really tired of not getting what I need..Guys pls help!

[Mattiemae]

What are you doing to socialize or meet people. I know there are singles groups offline and online. At churches, through recovery groups, through organizations. Really it is just getting out there and meeting new friends, networking, maybe taking classes of some sort, or social group.

[kingston]

Just going to work & interacting in social work group, nothing else. I'm hesitant to get on to online communities esp due to the fact that I do not want my EX to look at what I am doing, which he mostly spy on.

[Wakeup]

I find who ever I like are already taken either committed or married. None is ever interested & I want to know what's wrong?
Are only good looks and hard-to-get attitude on your list or "nearing-perfection" is killing me?

I am sorry for sounding stupid, but I am really tired of not getting what I need..Guys pls help!

Are you saying you NEED some other woman's partner?

What would you expect "the guys" of this forum to help you with?

BTW: If you're over your "EX" you should really not give a crap what he thinks of what you do with your own time now. Just how could he "spy" on you? Do you still live with him so he has access to your computer?

[confusedguy1012]

Just put yourself out there who gives a rats hat about what your ex thinks hes you EX not your boyfriend.

[mwtzzz]

It's really impossible to say with a such a brief description of your issue. When I hear words like "no one is ever interested in me" I tend to think that you're exaggerating, and so some clarification is in order. Or maybe you live in a town with 50 women for every 3 guys are so you're not exaggerating? I don't know.

[basilandthyme]

I'm confused. Are you wanting attention from the single guys who you're not interested in? Or are you wanting attention from the married guys who you are interested in?