Hello, I have exhausted all of my resources and now am turning to this community.
For nearly 2 1/2 months or so, this girl and I have been spending time with one another at least once a week,
while skyping online almost every other day for multiple hours.
Recently, probably due to the closeness, I noticed I was getting attracted to her.
This was completely one sided and I was aware of it as well, because she would mention a guy that she's crushing on
from time to time.
So, with the foreknowledge that it is one-sided, I still continued the routine of meeting and talking until just the other day
when I just couldn't take it anymore and I told her how I felt. She was moved by the articulation of my feelings, yet she
"rejected" me saying she did not feel the same way, and requested that we remain friends, which I said may be difficult now.
I still have to see her at least once a week, and in my experience, because of our foundational friendship, as long as I'm still
kind and courteous, I have a chance at winning her over.
My question is, in your(everyones') experience, do relationships ever work out after a rejection to either party if an existing foundation
of friendship exists.
To expound upon what kind of friendship it was,
1. I could literally say I was in the top tier of her friends, as she was with me.
2. We spent lots of time alone together.
3. We expect to eat/talk with each other when we are in the same vicinity.
If a relationship can work out after the rejection I received, how should I treat her to ensure this success?
As of right now, I am not communicating with her, nor she with me (we have to see each other in a couple days however)
Any advice/suggestions/opinions are welcome..
Thank you again