Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
I know this may not be what you want to hear, but I have to agree with seecrithiding. Your situation, quite frankly, hits a little too close to home for me. This sounds a lot like my ex-wife. My ex, in her own mind, can NEVER be wrong. In fact, she will tell half-truths, and BLATANTLY lie when telling "her side" of a story in order to make her look like the perfect little angel, and the other person look like a complete a-hole. I've experienced it from both sides, both from being the one she lied too and the one about whom she lied. In the case of hearing her BS stories about others, I've often heard the other person's side and realized how much more sense it made. In the case of her making up crap about me, I've caught her in her lies without even trying (not very stealthy, that one). I will not pretend to be a perfect angel myself, but the fact of the matter is I put up with way too much for way too long in that relationship. I deserve SO MUCH better, and that is coming from somebody who has lived his whole life with virtually NO self-esteem.
So, take it from me.... you deserve better. She most likely will not change. It does not sound like she appreciates you one bit, and you deserve somebody who appreciates you. Good luck, my friend.