Originally Posted by
markmartinisfas
to me it seems like she's not sure it will happen, or is she just being cautious?
I wouldn't have thought either of those things. Instead, I would have imagined that she was being logical. After all, nobody can be 100% sure of the future
That being said, if you can't understand her and can't ask her what she meant, marriage is going to be a disaster. Good communication underpins a good marriage.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.