So this guy who I stopped seeing a year ago drove by my work twice in the same week. The first time I was closing the restaurant on a Tuesday leaving my work at around 9:30pm - 10pm and was walking to my car. Then suddenly this car that was coming up from behind me sped up and then slowed right down when it reached next to me but a bit ahead so I couldn't look in the front windows. I automatically turned to my right side, faced the opposite way and pretended to be on my phone because I thought it was a creep. It was a nice black car not sure what kind of car cause I dont know much about cars. Anyways, the car was driving really slow now it seemed as if it didnt want to drive away from me and I was walking really slow hoping they would just drive away. Once I reached my car and I was standing next to it I hid behind the car that was parked infront so that whoever was in the black car couldnt see me. He kept driving really slow even when he couldnt see me anymore and once I felt there was enough distance for me to quickly get into my car without them being able to get me or do anything, I quickly got in and locked all doors. (my car was parked parallel on the right side of the road). The black car was still driving really slow almost at a stop and I guess it realized that I got in my carlol. About a minute later he or she or they(at this point I had no idea who it was I actually thought it was a creep someone who I dont know) drove off.
On Thursday that same week was my next shift and I worked evening again. I closed the restaurant and was ready to leave at around 9:30pm - 10pm again. Now this time I was still creeped out and was very cautious of my surroundings as Im walking to my car again. I made it to my car and before I got on the drivers side to get in, that was facing the side of the road, I looked all around me and made sure no one was driving by. When I realized no one was coming I quickly got on the drivers side, unlocked the door, got in my car and locked all doors. Now I was able to relax again and I took my phone out before I turned the car on to drive. Then all of a sudden I hear a car speeding up from behind again and it was the exact same engine sound that the black car made on Tuesday. Once the car reached my car it slowed right down again and stopped a bit infront of me again this time a bit further so I could only see the back of it. At the same time it slowed down, it stopped and honked. I knew it was honking at me to get my attention, and it was the same black car from Tuesday. I looked at the back of the black car and noticed that it had an N diplayed. So much was going through my mind I was so confused but I was still creeped out. Then the car drove away and that was the last time.
Now I realize and notice all the signs, it all points to one person. Unless it was a complete stranger/creep but the second time when the black car came back, he waited for me to get in my car and even honked. I have a feeling this person, who ever it is, knows me. All the signs lead to one person who keeps coming to mind. This guy who I stopped seeing a year ago. We ended on really bad terms unfortunately, not that we were anything anyways. He has his N and just a week before all this happened, even less than a week, I seen him drive by on the weekend (this was not intentional, I'm sure it was just a fluke) when I was walking to the entrance of this restaurant and he was driving really slow through the parking lot towards me in a really nice black car that looks identical to this black vehicle that drove by my work twice after that weekend.
If only I had some knowledge about cars cause then I could say for sure that its the exact same car but even though I dont know what kind of car it was, it still looked identical. I dont understand why he did this, what this is supposed to mean. Was he trying to creep me out? Was he hoping I would call him or something after? Does he still like me? What was he trying to do? It is really sad how him and I ended. I wish I could go back in time and change it but I can't. This also isn't only my fault that it turned out like this. I have a bf now and he has a gf. I dont know what he was thinking when he drove by my work like that, or what his intentions were. Anyways, I am looking for some advice on what you think it could possibly mean, what that was all about.