Last year my boyfriend of three years went abroad to work. I was heartbroken but understood as there was no work at home. For six months the long distance relationship was really really hard i missed him so much, but we skyped loads and i had visited him once. when he came home for a week on holiday he asked me to marry him and then move to the otherside of the world with him. I said YES! for the next 7 months I planned our wedding alone, it was so hard not having him there! When he came home everything was perfect we got married and moved away together! I thought it was the beginning of the perfect life together.. After maybe a month he asked me send a text on his phone, which is when i saw other texts from months ago when we were engaged.. It was from a girl saying that hey I'm the girl from the bar trying to get it on with you last night. There were other messages as it's a shame we can't meet it would be fun.. There were then loads of texts her telling him all about herself. (she was on holidays to that country) One night I confronted him he lied to my face and said he didnt know any girl by that name.. He later on told me that he did, he just didn't want to tell me because he wanted to get out of it. He told me how nothing has happened he flirted gave his number to her and they text for one day that was it. He had also text her back saying yeah that is a shame I have girlfriend!!
I was so disgusted with him that he would be-little our relationship so much he didn't even say he was engaged! It's been 6 months and things still are not right! When I drink I bring it up and we fight! I know in my heart that nothing has happened because I know he is a good person!! It's just the lying that hurts so much! I would do anything for him and I just don't think he realises how much he has hurt me and destroyed the trust in our relationship! People have told me that many girls tried it on with him but he always said he wasn't interested that he had a girlfriend.. I know I need to get past this but I don't know how! please be brutally honest with me! Am I overracting!??