Me and my girlfriend literally broke up only 2 days ago, and I know that's absolutely no time at all and I should probably be laying off. But I haven't been to pushy about it, I've been calmly talking to her trying to figure out the situation. I swear, 3 days ago she was telling me how in love with me she was and the next it's over, just like that. She says what sparked it is that I texted her ex-boyfriend asking if they still talked and hung out, since I caught them talking a few months back. But that was 2 days ago, now she says it's because it's the wrong timing, she wants to be friends and just needs space. Which I think is girl code for "it's over, I'm not interested in you anymore". Although, she agreed to come talk to me and drive around for a bit, at first I took this as a beacon of hope, because I thought it met maybe she was going to give me the chance to try and get back together with her. I don't think that's the case anymore though, I think she wants to tell me that we can just be friends... which no one really wants to hear let's face it; I realize it's better then nothing though. I sent her this text this morning, which probably was on the pushy side, and didn't help. But here it is: "This doesn't change the whole meeting up and talking, even if you don't. But do you have any intention on getting back together with me?" She responded with "I just need space, I'm sorry, We'll still talk though". She then responded again, "We'll talk, I'll explain everything, hopefully it will clear up some unanswered questions"
So my question is, how should I go about this when I do meet up with her; should I give it my all to try and heal this and get back together? She honestly means the world to me, & this girl has been crazy for me for the last 3 years. I don't see how she could possibly just stop being interested.
Or should I go with plan B, and go talk to her, listen to what she says, if there's a changing that needs done about me, I agree to do it. If not, then I try and settle things as good as I can with her so I can move on as better than I'd be able to if I just kept begging her.
I'm in a bit a rutt here! Thanks for any of the help