Hi everyone,
my name is Phil and im 28 years old, my girlfriend is 18... i know its quite a gap and most likely the reason why i have to get help from outside to manage my current situation.
Well my Girlfriend is the super heavy jealous kind wich is fine to me in general but she wont never talk about whats really bothering her until its too late and her moods are cooking over...still i can manage that from time to time.... she also has checked my phone just a few days ago and found some messages from before we both have met and she freaked out about it...i just simply forgot about those messages or else i wouldve deleted them... . One thing right away, i never cheated on here in ANY way okay never did never would. Well weve been together for almost 6 months now and i think this is a critical phase right now.
Her jealousy is just sky rocketing currently and allthough she checked my phone, facebook and everything she still doesnt trust me completley eventhough i really do everything to make her comfortable and give her security, i help her in the daily works, do romantic stuff, surprise her and so on in general everything i learned a woman appreciates.
A few days after she checked my phone she went to visit her cousin for a couple of days (shes still there), and in the beginning she didnt want to go because she felt we wouldnt see each other enough this month, i told her to go because it would do her good to get out and get a clear head and so she went.
The first question is how far can I trust HER ?? with this situation upcoming she btw said she wanted a break yesterday because it stresses her out to think about this stuff right now, wtf ?!
and the second question is ladies please tell me what in gods name can i do to make her trust me to give her the security she needs i dunno maybe one of you girls has similar trust issues... .
Greetings Phil