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[Phil86]

Yeah Thanks, ill think of that, easier said than done though as she really means something to me... -

[EuellG]

I think that your girl has problem with her head. She needs to see a mental specialist. May be she yong and stupid....

[chinagirl]

It just happened its not like i drugged her for gods sake, why do i need to defend myself here ? SHe had older boyfriends before me and she generally hangs out with older people, and for most of what i think im a pretty decent guy i treat her good, i show her what shes worth to me every single day, i have a Job, i keep myself in shape and i support her in every way. Her Parents like me and also said that im by far her best boyfriend up to now. I dont know whats going on in your head when you think of this. YOu know theres a emotional basis to this too, not only a sexual.

No offense to you, but have you ever questioned her why she likes going out with older guys? Because most teenage boys wont tolerate such behavior of being too jealous and snooping. She likes older men because they tolerate her immaturity.

My son had a GF at the age of 15 and they broke up when he was 19 because he could not take the jealous and controlling GF anymore so he dumped her ass and found someone 1 year older than him. Hes now 20.

I will also question the parents for allowing the kid to go out with someone who's 28. I have no objection with big age gaps. My BF is 13 years my senior. The problem I'm having with this is she is just a kid. If she reached the age of emancipation which in my state is 21 then by all means, date her.

My BF daughter is also 17 and all she and her friends talk about is the upcoming prom, getting their belly button pierced and getting their very first license to drive a car soon.

I have no doubt that you are a decent guy. You could be the nicest guy in the world but you see why I'm having a problem with this, right.

this really hits close to home. i have to make sure that I'm on top of my daughters to make sure that no guys in their mid 20's or late 20's would hit on them. And also instill the same values to them that there are certain things that one may see as acceptable but does not make it necessarily right.

And Basil, no offense to you, but I have every right to police my daughters and even daughters of my friends and people that I know so something like this will not happen to them. Your morals are certainly different than mine and to each their own but I can tell you that majority of the people I know, specially parents would be totally opposed to this.

[searock]

Yes, it's not about the age gap per se, it's the fact that she's a kid and he is an adult.

[michelle23]

Ive been 18 but ive never been a crazy, jealous, paranoid gf so no its not her age its her personality and theres nothing you can do to change that. I agree you should break up. 6months in you should be all over each other, happy and in love. Not constantly walking on eggshells and trying to justify yourself.