Hey everyone,
I've been together with my girlfriend for around 4 months now, im 19 and she's 18. For the past two months she's started hanging out very often with a guy from her class, and it has started making me very irritated for a couple of reasons.
First off they're hanging out very often, like every third day, and last week, when we had like half a deal to hang out, she dumped my because she had to hang out with her friend. She keeps telling me that i shouldnt worry because he's gay, but the matter of the fact is just that he isnt. He's slept with two her best friends and so, so there is no doubt that he just isnt. When they text each other they write hearts all the time, and i know this shouldnt annoy my as it is just silly texting but combined with some of the other things im listing its just started to annoy me.
Another thing that annoys me about this is that she is talking about him all the time. An example is last night when we decided to go for a little walk in the park for around an hour she talked about him 5 times. Constantly saying "Haha, when i was with Chris yesterday he did that and that and that....".
I know this may sound strange but i also think he likes her. She has told me that he used to like her but doesnt anymore. But im just having a hard time believing this. For example he wants to be with her all the time. Yesterday when he was going tanning in the local "sun-center" he begged her constantly to come with her because he was scared of doing it alone... Come on...
Another thing is that he is the best friend of her ex boyfriend. Me and her ex boyfriends have known each other for 10 years now, and we're just the kind of people that really are never going to like each other, in fact we really hate each other. I dont know her best friend chris well, but im afraid that he is so close to her ex boyfriend that he will try to turn her against me at some point.
I know many of the things i've mentioned above may seem silly, but when you've got a girlfriend that you love of all your heart, it is just annoying that she keeps talking about this other guy all the time when we're hanging out and so....
Any advice? or anything you want me to explain feel free to ask.
Casper