So I met this girl 10 months ago and I really like her. She likes me too. But whenever I ask her why we aren't officially together, she just says we can't be together? I told her how I feel, and she wishes she can reciprocate that feeling, but she says its wrong to do so, because she can't see us in the future and she's worried she's just leading me on. She says she has so many insecurities, including her parents disapproval due to cultural background clashes, how she's not good enough for me, how we can't ever be together and she's repeatedly distanced herself away from me. From the bottom of my heart, i just want her to be happy, and she said i do make her happy and not being together would be sad for her. Recently i asked her to the formal, and she said no, she doesnt want people to get the wrong impression of us. i think she just wants to keep our relationship secret. Any suggestions on how I can change her mind and get her to come to the formal with me?